So we agreed and swopped addresses...and then life happened and we were busy and then one day we cleared out the post box and there was our very first letter!
And what a special letter it was,including a picture of Bear's favourite things, an airplane loaded with guns!
Bear really enjoyed getting his own post but when I suggested writing back he was strangely reluctant.
I kept suggesting and he kept saying no...until I realised he thought he had to write himself, so after I explained that he could draw whatever he wanted and that I would write the words for him he was much happier to participate.
I let him pick through the art supplies and he chose
- Coloured pencils
- A stencil
This was the first time he's used a stencil, and it was chosen because of the transport theme it has.
I showed him quickly how it worked and away he went.
It only took him a moment to realise my pen would work better than his pencils so he appropriated the pen for me and set to it, with a little help from mom to hold the stencil steady and point out any missing lines
Then it was time to use our pencils to colour in all our trucks, helicopters, boats and cars.
I also had it on good authority that our pen pal has fondness for stick on tattoos, something which I happen to have a lot of via some marketing ploy through The Dad's work. So we were going to include some with our letter, but of course Bear needed to know what they were all about so we tried one out on the back of his hand.
< waiting patiently for The Mom to say it's ok to remove the paper
Then it was time to decorate with stickers.
I tried to get him to pause and pose with his tattoo for a moment, but the split second he conceded I couldn;t get the camera to focus and the moment was lost...so instead here is a pic of it while he was doing the stickers
Once Bear was happy with the final results I turned over the page and started the letter.
He helped me address it ( I held and guided his hand)
And then it was time for him to dictate the letter to me. At first he didn;t really understand, but after we read our letter again and then talked about what we wanted to tell our friend he got the hang right away.
And he also wanted to break the exciting news that he's going to have another little brother or sister soon!
Once I'd written he decided more stencilling was needed and had another go.
This time he really did a sterling job I thought, and with minimal help from me!
And we signed his name together to finished it off.
And so our letter was done, popped into the envelope with the temporary tattoos and a letter from The Mom to the other Mom.
Bear accomapnied me to the post office and helped send the letter on it's way across the country to our friends.
And we're looking forward to getting our next letter one day soon we hope!
After all that a well deserved nap on the bean bags was in order!